December 26, 2018

I have Done Yesterday With Rubella Vaccination To My Baby Girl: Have You Done This Vaccination?

Across the all major cities, Govt of India has ruled out the camps at every school and Govt Hospital. They are providing costly vaccination totally free of cost and it has kept mandatory for any individual who is falling between 18 months to 15 year old.


Guys, just wanted to let you know that I have done vaccination of Rubella virus to Reedha. It was happened in quite a busy and difficult time and yesterday was the last day in our area. It is getting free of cost from the government of India. It was last day yesterday for free vaccination.

What is Rubella?




Rubella is very dangerous among the pregnant ladies and should be taken care immediate without ignorance.

Initiatives of Government of India


Across the all major cities, Govt of India has ruled out the camps at every school and Govt Hospital. They are providing costly vaccination totally free of cost and it has kept mandatory for any individual who is falling between 18 months to 15 years old.

Before taking this vaccination, baby must have his/her stomach full.
Feed your baby with full stomach and then take to the Hospital. If the virus attacked by pregnant women, it can cause deafness in the unborn child. If you are not yet aware about it, please contact to the nearest Govt Hospital immediate.

Symptoms :-

  • Running nose
  • Fever
  • Headache

December 25, 2018

DO YOU FIND A DIFFICULT TASK HANDLING YOUR KIDS? OR YOU DON'T LIKE THEM AT ALL TROUBLING OTHERS? MY WIFE SAYS. I BELIEVE IT IS JUST A GAP BETWEEN BOTH OF YOU THAT NEED TO OVERCOME




I have always this question keeps banging the nerves of my head. This is obvious because of my wife, she keeps shooting - you don't love your daughter. I feel guilty that why she keeps calling like that? Many answers came from my heart and those were right. Wives do not mean like that. What else I would have done else? When I come from the office, I already get tired. I just give my daughter a few flying kisses, play with her for a few minutes and caress her. And after that my wife still says that you don't love your daughter.
Does love define that way only? I don't know about you, but I do not agree with that. I also heard from her that the love exists till only until you are fiancée and after marriage, the love vanishes like a vapour releases from the pressure cooker. I am strongly disagreeing on that. It never vanishes, it converts and forms a different relationship that loves you would find in your children.

The love never changes for anyone, its get distributes when you have children and my wife's second question was the same. She also says that I don't love the way we used to before we got married. You have changed a lot. I agree to that, man changes when he gets married, but I am not exactly like she says. It is love that always increases when you give it to someone except falling for someone else.
I have less time and that could be the reason that I don't care for my daughter that much my wife wants. I am agreeing to some extent, it is true as I don't get that much time. She is a mother and I can understand the time she spends with the child I don't. Her love cannot be measured against me and no one else in this world would measure the love of a mother, it is indefinite.


I also asked me that what I should do to get it done. How to increase the love and care for my child? I did some researches as I am a new father. My daughter only wants to hold her around the arms, taking her out of the stinky and suffocated house in the open air that always likes her. One day I took a step forward and on a weekend I played with her, taking her on my shoulder, became an animal and made her sat on my back and carried her from one corner of the house to another. Her smiles made my day. And it changes like that, the smiles came on my wife's lips and I proved her wrong.
My baby girl who used to hesitate to come to me, cuddling around my arms and mostly had ignored playing with me and that day she did all well. One thing on that day I learned about how to make a child happy and it was easy. From that day I became favourite of my daughter and I need to keep this rigour sustain not every day but at least on a weekend if I am too busy.


I still wonder why old men like children so much. They might find interests and peace in taking care of them or there could be other many reasons. I think, they must remember their childhood when they see babies. They actually have memories and what else they could remember. They are the only people who had spent almost more than 60 years of their life and many good and bad experiences they have faced in their life.
I have learned about parenting from the only old men, watching them taking care of the babies, loving them, behaving with them like a child and make them the most comfortable in their laps, shoulders, and arms. I believe they would only be a good teacher for the young generations. Everyone should have a friend like that, our knowledge gets healed.

December 22, 2018

A Newly Married Man: How He Experienced The Life, Changes Before & After Marriage

If I talk about how do I feel being a married man? There are many things and happiness is such a huge that it can't be told in the few words. It was a day when I was working in the office and a thought came in my mind that doctor gave due date 5th of Jun 2017 to my wife and I have to take leaves on those days and I had already told to my boss those tentative dates, but I was not that cautious enough. Many times I told my wife that I will take delivery of our baby at  home and my wife including my mother and her mother laughed too.

Feelings of Being A Married Man.


If I talk about how do I feel being a married man? There are many things and #happiness is such a huge that it can't be told in the few words. It was a day when I was working in the office and a thought came in my mind that doctor gave due date 5th of Jun 2017 to my wife and I have to take leaves on those days and I had already told to my boss those tentative dates, but I was not that cautious enough. Many times I told my wife that I will take delivery of our baby at
home and my wife including my mother and her mother laughed too.



"Left those days when women deliver the baby at home." My #mother-in-law said.

We both were curiously waiting for our baby and my wife and other family members including my parents were thinking that there is a boy coming home. But somewhere in my mind, a feeling of a daughter was holding the nerves of my mind. I remember except me no one was ready to believe that there was a baby girl breathing through intestine of my wife. There was a reason behind that, in our family for many years first was a baby boy and then again a baby boy and third child used to be a girl.

Establish The Connections With My Wife.

When I got married I was so happy choosing a girl by my father and I had told my father that I would love if you take a pride choosing a girl for me. And I also told him that I give you two year for this and if you were not able to find the one then let me handle this. I knew that it was a fair deal. In India, no father wants getting married his son/daughter without permission of the family, especially it happens in love marriage. This is what I love India because we possessed great heritage. So coming back to the point how I had established the connections with my wife? Let me tell you first, though it was arranged marriage, we both fell in love when we saw first time each other. And our wedding date was almost two months late and within those days our bond became so strong and with the strings wrapped around it of all the feelings. So we both had such understanding that it took place so smoothly after we got married.

Expectations and Planning.


The expectations and planning are everyone's first things after the wedding, none of us that much lazy avoiding it. We both had many expectations too for each other and future planning. We were mad about our planning like every night before bed our plans were changing like the wind shifts in any direction. It was that sudden as the dark cloud on the head disappears in a second and gives sunlight.


My expectations from my #wife were as simple as that as like old wives living their life. Neither was I looking for a wife who would be working in office nor simple one who behave and stands in military order. I was the one who wanted a wife who would be so romantic and stay at home, bear children, take care of them and be a good coach for our children's future so that she/he shouldn't forget our cultures which were living in both of us exist from many ages. This was what I can say was planning. If I talk about my professional life there was much planning which I will discuss in my next blog.

Understanding Level.


When I was a child came to know that understanding plays an important role in our life. If you don't understand your parents then there won't be a love bong between family. One positive thought would bring much good understanding between us, and I used to do that. Hope and patience would help better in understanding. Thanks to God that he has given me such good understanding parents and I inherited it. I always remember an old saying that 'a type of seeing you sew on the farm, you will get the same type of the seeds later. And I hope it inherits in my child too.


The Cares and Love.


If you want to survive last longer in any relation do not forget two things that are #Love and #Care. In my case, as far as in my childhood I was a lovely and cute boy and the love which I got from my family and what I have learned from them was the exceptional experience and those learning would help me survive my relations with my loved ones. The things that had taught me by my parents and the society where I lived was if you smile you will get it to return. In my married life too, if it brings in the notice that these doses have been less then I increase them. When I became a father, the love and care rose spontaneously. There will always be fights between husband and wife and that is required. Only then you understand the value of Love and Care, somewhere you realize and run for it and bring the situations back to normal.


Yelling and Joking.


I learned it from my group of friends when yelling and joking sometimes make an irate friend happy, but it sometimes also worsens the situation. That’s what we need to keep in mind. When there is any fight between us and the responsible one yells and jokes. We had already decided to overcome the anger or come back to happy married life. I knew the anger is the biggest enemy of the human being. It is the only one who spoils the life of the individual.

Hobbies, Like and Dislike.



One thing surprised me, that was our hobbies, like and dislike. They were the same. But only one thing brought in the notice that she loves not to bring this in practice and I have done these. Though she helps me in that, her interests are also the same. And sometimes we ended with a fight if the things won’t work properly.

December 19, 2018

CAME TO A STRANGE CITY WITH A DOUBT: NEWLY MARRIED WOMAN'S STORY IN POETRY



CAME TO A STRANGE CITY WITH A DOUBT

I came first time to a city of
my new husband's home with a doubt
Be aware of the one who is 
a liar said my villagers louder
I was a newly married girl
who had never seen a city
who had never worn a jacket of fur
Since it was an arranged marriage
I don't know how my husband talk
he looked like a gentleman
But I had never a chance with him for a walk
Now, after watching urban and their lifestyle
I will put a proposal to him
for that matter in a file
His behaviors seem very different
unseen and unmatch
First thing in this city

I have to start talking to him, still
his smile to catch
I had many tears in my uplift, young eyes
I was a girl who just had finished my
studies and suddenly the head took a load of
the marriage elephant size

Now the future life has stood in front of me
with a sign of cheers
Doesn't matter how much he earns
he is my husband now, a soulmate
Anything it comes I have to eat, live & wear

I was Dumb Stucked When I Saw The Katraj Zoo: Only Management is Responsible for This



I remember that day clearly, It was Saturday when I had visited #Katraj #Zoo in 2012 It was the best place for Hanging out with your girlfriend/boyfriend or with your school-mate or you can come with your family members. I went there with my parents. I remembered, there were so cement road, it was as natural as you go and walk in the forest footpath. Musky land, traditional couple entry, or school boys & girls. All of these were specialities. The co-workers, guards were soft and polite. Almost 6.5 years later I visited this zoo and I got shocked when I entered.

I was Dumb Stucked When I Saw The Katraj Zoo


They have developed very fine cement road which has lost the feeling of natural road walk and I was still feeling that I have not come to the zoo, but someone has dragged me to a corner of a crowded city. I could feel the traffic, this may be the result of tree cutting or maybe increase in vehicles.





The disappointed mood forcefully led me to see snake park wondering that there will be a fine agreement of my mood, but then when I saw this sleepy python. It seems like he has not eaten for months. Look at his picture below.


I was strongly feeling that I have wasted my time to come here all the way from Dehu road to Katraj, Pune. But then I rebuilt my mind and took part in the happiness of my family. (This time I had come with my wife and daughter)


Then we all three headed toward the animal section where all hungry were running for food. They might not get food on time.
One thing I still wonder back in 2012 when I was there at the end of the park, the board says, "Elephant is ahead" I couldn't find even single one and again on Saturday, Dec 15, 2018, I have not found it. Zoo guys are making fool people that there is an Elephant in this park.




Many families come with #children and their happiness lies in such an innocent creature that make them happy. At least Elephant does. When we were on the way to the zoo I was making my daughter sure that we are going to see Elephant and when that promise wasn't met then it was difficult for us to handle the situation.

If someone from the zoo reading this, please make sure about it that the public should enjoy #nature.

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