March 08, 2019

Beware on the habitual dilemma of your kids, it is only becomes a reason to ruin the life of their future

We are careless about our child, we teach them initially and it becomes their habits and later they have to suffer if they can't meet their own expectations. It is our duty that we have to keep limited access to what we can offer actually not to rely on the neighbours. One day it becomes a bad thing and parents would be accountable for that crime.

"We are careless about our child, we teach them initially and it becomes their habits and later they have to suffer if they can't meet their own expectations. It is our duty that we have to keep limited access to what we can offer to our children, actually not to rely them on the neighbour's rich habits later it becomes too difficult for parents to manage. One day it becomes a bad dilemma and no one but parents would be accountable for that crime."


What kind of nerves that send sensation to the brain of a child of 12 months old. I had experienced for the first time in my life. Being a literary blogger I was not sure that handling baby at home is not only a difficult task but understanding them is a bigger part. When we feed the child apart from mother's milk, they soon become familiar with types of food and taste. And such one of the thing recently had happened with me when I visited a shopping mall with my wife and 12 months old baby daughter.

Since I do not stay at home in the afternoon, I was unknown about most of the activities. And our neighbours take her to their house for a bath and lunch. They live with an elder son, and one younger son lives away in Ahmadabad. They love her so much and feed her from fruits to Daal-Rice. We never restrict my daughter taking her to their house and now she has become a piece of their life. Whenever we go to our native place, they keep calling us and talk to my daughter through video-call.

At the age when she was 6 months old, she was getting all the kinds of fruits in her lunch and thus she got a taste of fruits like Apple, Kiwi, Strawberry, Grapes etc. That day when we were doing shopping in the mall, she was on the trolley enjoying watching different people, smiling looking at the different faces, children, babies etc.

First, we had started the clothes department, we brought curtains and a few floor mats. Then headed to supper market things, Sugar, Rice, Salt, Wheat, Soup, Oil etc. and then lastly we appeared into Vegetable and Fruits department We had seen may children under age of 2 years with their parents in that section and few were still buying. We passed through a bunch of Apples and she saw it. When we were going away from the Apple every foot her head couldn't take away the glance from it. When she got to know that we are going away and away only then she cried louder.


It was then we got to know that she wants Apple, she was trying to jump within a second and was not giving a chance us for taking a turn. My wife holds her into her arms and we reached near the bunch. Before I could take them for weight, my daughter held my wife's hair, gave a few scratches on her cheek. I got 1 kg and gave one to her, she did not allow for a wash too.

I shocked surprised completely that she was so crazy for it and buzzed almost the entire floor with her strong voice. Many of them were laughing at her and some got irritated. The market staff allowed our baby to eat inside the mall. Then we headed to the Electronic section, we had placed her again on the trolley, she was eating that Apple, falling down and again she was crying and giving her back, again and again, she as doing it and if I did not allow her eating then she could cry louder and make people irritated.

I know that it is normal and babies do it often at that period of age. But what I had observed was something beyond my thinking and never experience anger. I pulled out my mobile phone and dialled my father. I just wanted to say to him that Reedha did something different today - it was not that bad or not a that good thing but sharing with him was kind of fun for me or a bit of shame.

On the call, I asked my father that "What if I was not capable of buying something she wants then?" My father gave me a very fine answer and I was impressed. I never had a single thought of it. It was very simple, he said,

"The poor child does not know that is Apple and if there was a baby who had never seen that before then she wouldn't have asked or cried for it."

It was obvious, my daughter had seen the Apple many times and she had to try it several times too. This was the reason that she recognised it quickly and shook the entire floor by her cry. This story was just Apple but what about the important decision in life or when you talk to your child about anything then it is a very serious topic that we have to be alert while talking with our kids. It is a fault if something bad had happened with our child, it is because of our culture at home. If something goes wrong in front of them, they learn from our mistakes and they do it knowingly in their life.

March 03, 2019

The love needs sacrifice, adjustment, understanding and the last is trust. Without these, it wouldn't succeed in life.


I was late in office that day, I woke up at around 7 am, two hours late than the usual schedule. Due to late, I picked up my bike instead of a bicycle. It takes me around 25 minutes by motor-bike and 45 minutes by bicycle. Since it was the morning of February 2019, it was still cold outside. Sometimes I could see some fog around me. I reached the office two hours late. That was not mattered at all, I was sure many of my colleagues will be absent or late due to last night. It guessed from my own experience. I slept after 1.30 am. The reason was simple, it was valentine which had started after 12 am last night.  I had my breakfast at 9:20 and took a walk around the cricket ground. Infosys has a huge one, just like a reality that we see on TV. Despite, it has all the grounds like Football, Holly-ball, Tennis etc. As I turned and started walking by the cricket ground a girl passed on my right side. She was not sad nor happy.

I was late in office that day, I woke up at around 7 am, two hours late than the usual schedule. Due to late, I picked up my bike instead of a bicycle. It takes me around 25 minutes by motor-bike and 45 minutes by bicycle. Since it was the morning of February 2019, it was still cold outside. Sometimes I could see some fog around me. I reached the office two hours late. That was not mattered at all, I was sure many of my colleagues will be absent or late due to last night. It guessed from my own experience. I slept after 1.30 am. The reason was simple, it was valentine which had started after 12 am last night.

I had my breakfast at 9:20 and took a walk around the cricket ground. Infosys has a huge one, just like a reality that we see on TV. Despite, it has all the grounds like Football, Holly-ball, Tennis etc. As I turned and started walking by the cricket ground a girl passed on my right side. She was not sad nor happy.

"He said that we can be together but not sure that he will get married to me," she said on the phone. Her age was the perfect time for marriage. How long she had spent staying together only she would know but they were she was talking to her friend was absolutely normal. She didn’t find loss or gain in the relationship. But whatever time it took her to that level of understanding was learning.

On a special day, you must have thought that she had a break-up or the relationship was about to end today. It was obvious why she would fall in love if the partner is not 100% sure about marriage.

I heard and thinking life has many shapes and dreams. After ten steps ahead I saw another girl. She was just graduated and had joined the company. I was sure can recognise her from her identity card, it was new. When I saw her she was talking happily with her close one. They could be parents or friend.

"I am feeling so good today." She said.

Her face expression was quite revealing the information without saying but there was no liked to any boy that she was talking to. The day was not that important for her than her parents and sharing her mood with them. I met many of my college friends who had no girlfriend like me, but they used to talk to their parent and sharing every information. I remember those days.

I smiled and went ahead, my building was just a minute of walk away. I thought I just need a cup of tea. I could feel the coldness of the morning and I was indeed of sunlight because of cold. I took a right turn on the sunny path and stood in front of a bullock cart where I could get tea, it was standing on the footpath side. It was modern kind of stall in our office, many come here for sipping morning tea in their first break. It had no bullocks, only cart. Boys and girls were sitting together, maybe they were in love with friendship or in a serious relationship.

A girl came in there and stood to hold a mobile phone, she was matured, and talking on the phone. She had a red flower long one-piece. She was frustrated. From her call, it seems like the blood in her nerves were boiling. Her face had sweat rolling down to her cheek. In her tone, I couldn’t find any patience. She was shouting question continuously and was not listening, every time she was cutting the next person.

"I don't care, where are you? You did not call me since last night, where are you?" She smiled looking at the people out there then again got serious on the call.

"Please give me a cup of tea?" She also ordered.

What kind of love it is? I got a question. I took my cup and found my nook on the road since I need sunlight. The road of my office is wide and no vehicles are allowed except ambulance. Though, the speed would not more than 15 km/hour. So I was in a safe hand.

"Were you talking to her all night?" Saying this she went on the opposite side holding her teacup and continued on the call.

Am damn sure this is not loving, it is a kind of harassment and it won't stand for the long period. The love needs sacrifice, adjustment, understanding and the last is trust. Without these, it wouldn't succeed in life.

March 02, 2019

Abhinandan's braveness made many Indians feel proud, he proved that he is a true Indian: India welcomes him with gratitude

Abhinandan Verthaman was born on 21 Jun 1983 and he shows he is an exceptional Indian fighter pilot in Indian Air Force. Who pilot MIG – 21 Bison fighter Aircraft.  On 28 Feb 2019, he was arrested. He shot aerial dogfight and had received many media reorganisation. He was saved by the Pakistan army and after he was in custody for three days in Pakistan.


Abhinandan Verthman was born on 21 Jun 1983 and he shows he is an exceptional Indian fighter pilot in Indian Air Force. Who pilot MIG – 21 Bison fighter Aircraft.  On 28 Feb 2019, he was arrested. He shot aerial dogfight and had received many media reorganisation. He was saved by the Pakistan army and after he was in custody for three days in Pakistan.





 This photogram clearly says that he was saved from the local Pakistani and was being arrested by the army.


This photogram clearly says that he was saved from the local Pakistani and was being arrested by the army.




During his arrest, he was found a well-known personality in India due to his work. His courage was astonishing.
Many Indian’s were posting about his pictures and praying for his return. Pakistan also shows that he was being saved from the local villagers before he was being captured by Pakistan soldier.

He seemed strong and stubborn while inspection by the Pakistani army. His parents were travelling to welcome him and they got a feel of proud of their son in airplane, the people had given them a lot of respect and clapped. That honour every parent need, even me too. The entire country was with Abhimandan and with his parents.
On Friday 1st March 2019 he was handed back to India by Pakistan at Wagah border and after few minutes PM Narendra Modi congratulated him on the twitter post.


PM said, "The nation is proud of your exemplary courage."




After he was welcomed by the Indian Army at the border, many people including his parents gave him warmed welcome, now he is spending quality time with the family and friends.
Many news channels were talking about the shit is happening since "Pulwama attack" this is because of upcoming election tricks. But the truth was revealed after this incident.


This below video was being viral on Instagram at the time of his arrest in Pakistan



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